Flight attendant reveals clever hacks to get a first-class upgrade: 'Can prevent you from being overlooked'

A flight attendant’s account of first-class upgrade “hacks” focuses on what can and cannot influence an upgrade decision. Barbara Bacilieri, a flight attendant with 15 years of experience, said bribing cabin crew or claiming to be on a honeymoon does not work because upgrade decisions are generally made hours before boarding. She explained that the crew follows the airline’s list, typically driven by frequent flyer status, with higher-tier members getting priority. Still, she suggested passengers should check in as soon as online check-in opens, not just on the travel day, because when two passengers have similar priority the one who checked in first may be selected. She also noted upgrades are easier when traveling alone rather than moving multiple family members. Bacilieri said overly casual clothing can sometimes hurt, while looking neat and presentable may help avoid being overlooked. The article also references a dispute involving Lufthansa and an influencer alleging she was denied entry for a “naked” outfit, while Lufthansa said travelers must wear clothing appropriate for a public journey.